Tips On How To Keep A Relationship Going Strong

Donnau1 By Donnau1, 31st Mar 2012 | Follow this author | RSS Feed
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With every relationship there is ups and down so if there is trouble between you and your spouse. The I suggest that you continue reading. I have out line some of the most common mistakes many couples face on a daily basis.

What a good relationship needs

A relationship involves two people who are in love with each other. A relationship must never give you any pain but instead fill your life with pleasure. Following these tips you not only learn small ways that will keep your relationship going strong but keep it lasting long. There are three things a relationship needs to last long and that is:
1. Honesty
2. Trust
3. Forgiveness
Without these three aliments a relationship will never last long. With every relationship there are going to be some ups and downs. Both partners must share the same feelings for each other otherwise the relationship won’t work and you can’t love someone more than how they love you in return. A relationship cannot base on sex, although good sex sometimes holds a relationship together.


First of all a relationship can’t be base upon lies. Being honest with your partner at all times will only strengthen your relationship. No! I don’t mean that you should tell he or she every single thing that goes on in your life but be as honest as possible as you can. Don’t keep secrets from each other because once that secret comes out it can ruin your relationship forever.


Trust is the key to every relationship. If you can’t trust your partner then the relationship will not last. You must be able to trust each other completely. You must be able to trust your man when he goes out with his friends and vice versa.


If you can’t forgive and forget then your relationship is in trouble. I am not saying that you must forgive him or her every single time he or she cheats. Yes I know that sometimes it is hard to forgive and forget, but each partner must learn how to forgive each other. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying that you must keep on forgiving them if they keep breaking your heat, there must be a time limit for everthing. Remember one time is a mistake, twice is not that bad but three times well that’s another thing.

Spending time together

A couple must be able to spend quality time together. Yes, I know that you can’t be together all the time each partner need their space. Try not to be too clingy because your partner will feel as if you don’t trust them.


Sometimes jealousy can break up a relationship you must be able to control your emotions. Don’t get jealous every time your man look, touch or talk to another woman. Jealousy will only drive your partner into someone else’s arms


As I said you can’t base a relationship on sex alone. Sex can either break or make a relationship. If you feel like you are not enjoying sex with him anymore or you feel it isn’t as good as the first time, you must not keep it to yourself tell him how you feel about having sex together. Then together you can come up with a plan that will improve your sex life. Try to spice up your sex life by using sex toys or try doing some different positions maybe that will help. But don’t keep it to yourself.

Having a disagreement

Have a disagreement can result in breaking up with each other. It you are having a disagreement don’t say things that will hurt each other feelings because they might take it to heart or get the wrong idea. Sometimes when couples have an argument they tend to say things that they really don’t mean. Find a way to just kiss and make up because an argument can actually lead to a break up. If in case there is something bothering you just sit down and talk to each other calmly, shouting at each other won’t solve your problems.


With every relationships there are going to be some arguments at some point or the other. The way to avoid them is by giving each other some space to themselves....


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author avatar Donnau1
Hell I am Donna. I am from the island of Jamaica.My hobbies are collecting stamps & writing (short stories and articles). I like to write about weight loss,making money & relationships.

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author avatar David Reinstein,LCSW
31st Mar 2012 (#)

Good tips... and a wonderful initial post here at Wikinut.

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author avatar Donnau1
2nd Apr 2012 (#)

I just wanted to tell you thanks for your kind words. but can you answer this question please can I put a link in my post to another blog site that have the relevant topic?

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author avatar Rathnashikamani
1st Apr 2012 (#)

Great ideas.

Welcome to Wikinut.

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author avatar Donnau1
2nd Apr 2012 (#)

Thanks glad to be here

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author avatar vpaulose
25th Nov 2012 (#)

Nice. Thank you dear Donnau.

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author avatar vpaulose
29th Dec 2012 (#)

Wish you the best dear Donnau.

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author avatar Donnau1
31st Dec 2012 (#)

same to you

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